Been up all morning working and thinking.

No matter how things seem, it is imperative to push forward. The process which leads to victory is entangled with loss, pain, disappointment, and fear. Without these, our triumphs along the way would not feel as powerful. A loss reminds us to be thankful for what we embody and hold dear. Pain ensures us that love exists. Disappointment shows us that our aspirations are real. Fear is a culmination of the unknown.

My perfectly imperfect journey is comprised of all these things and more. How I respond, react, and move past shows my growth as a person. This is a new year that has presented new challenges and despite what I over think, encounter, or face…it will be ok.

— ~De’Cheri
De’Cheri in the DMV!

Indie State Of Mind

www.decheri.com

De’Cheri in the DMV!

Indie State Of Mind

www.decheri.com

“I have heard of people dying from a broken heart…

*sigh*

For a brief moment, I almost did.

Life goes on.”

— TsH
Side eye…

TsH

Side eye…

TsH

A night out…

TsH

A night out…

TsH

Truth…

*sigh* I will post this one more time for you…you know who you are.

I can’t confirm or deny this…I’m only going off what has been presented to me via discussion, experience, and elder discussion.

When a man wants you…there isn’t too much that can keep him away. By nature he is the pursuer and thus should, in most cases, make the first move. Allow the dynamic to run its course naturally. Patience is golden.

Some tend to carry baggage from one dynamic to another without allowing the proper healing take place…I personally believe that men and women who sustain a great deal of damage are usually the ones who avoid the healing process all together.

Let’s make 2012 the year for accountability and healing. Let’s stop being careless with who we are and who we fully open ourselves to. You are priceless, conduct yourselves accordingly.

It’s never to late to reclaim your value. Love thyself. Know thyself.

You have to be happy with yourself first before you can enter a dynamic of substance.

~jet

Kama Sutra Heels

TsH

Kama Sutra Heels

TsH

Work of Art

I know I’m not perfect.

Alas, I’m gradually chipping away my imperfections.

Revealing my potential beauty with each passing moment.

Instead of running away, stay long enough to see me for who I am.

Not what my fears say of me.

I’m at war with my fears. Don’t give them ammunition.

I’m not asking for your help. Not even your cheers.

Just support me. Give me a chance.

It’s not easy being an old soul in this microwave society.

But I try.

A work in progress.

Just love me.

Among this sea of uncertainty, here lies what I once was.

Now presenting, the core of me.

TsH

Epiphany

I realized that I was terribly unhappy. I only found true happiness when I quit wishing and started doing.

This new found love of myself is something quite amazing.

TsH

Headphone princess.

TsH

Headphone princess.

TsH

The moment…

That your actions hinted at me being an option rather than a priority…got your ass pink slipped.

*winks eye*

I’m not currently hiring, but I’m always taking applications.

Good luck.

TsH

My sweet treat while I was waiting for my bracelet to be cleaned.

Thanks Tiffany & Co of Towson Mall.

TsH

My sweet treat while I was waiting for my bracelet to be cleaned.

Thanks Tiffany & Co of Towson Mall.

TsH

I pray…

for pain, sadness, disappointment, and confusion.

Without these things I would not know joy, happiness, trust, and understanding.

I pray for peace of mind, spirit, and heart.

These things are essential to my existence.

I pray for peace.

TsH

My latest project.

My beauty manifests from a somber place.

Therapy at its finest.

TsH

My latest project.

My beauty manifests from a somber place.

Therapy at its finest.

TsH

My baby made cookies…

Needless to say, they didn’t last long.

TsH

My baby made cookies…

Needless to say, they didn’t last long.

TsH